Put into Practice : The perceptual process
My maths lecturer is the best person for me to use for my perceptual process. she is the person i can think of right now. In my last semester maths class, i had this lady called Mrs Janet as my maths lecturer. The first day of class when i saw her i was nerve for no reason but i felt i was nervous because i was the only "black" in my class which kind of made me inconvenient at first. It was not easy for me though because when she first introduced herself and she asked all of us to introduce our selves, i felt more nervous but i had to. After that she told us to log into our maths lab and do some orientation work. I had done mine already so i called her attention to come explain some things to me same time another white guy called for her attention so she went to the guy first before coming to me. I was pissed because i called her first and she did not come. Since then i did not like her one bit.
As time went on, i had to tell myself to let away my shyness and smart up in the class so if i have to do anything in class or if i needed her attention she will take me serious. That went on well for me. Anytime i needed her she will come to me even most times she will just come to me and ask if am finding everything okay. I felt loved within me because she was well explanatory and straight forward. That i did not know so when i first spoke to her i thought she was doing favoritism but no i was the one who did not take my time to understand her. Even the day i called her attention first i raised my hand but the guy called out her name so i wont really blame her for that but still she would have still come straight to me first before going to him. So i took that like she did not see my hand. I realized for me to survive and do well in this class i have to be able to speak up because she likes when you talk to her and call her anytime we needed her.
It was later i noticed she was not what i thought of her. she is the good opposite of it. she made me change my thinking towards her and since then i started learning to speak up in every of my classes and my remaining stay in her class was really fun. I had no problem communicating with her since i knew where the problem was coming from.
As a result, if i put into practice the perceptual process in my life it will make me better understand people also people will get to understand me too as well learn from me.
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